How To Remove Toxic People From Your Life: What I've Learned

I made this video to share a few things I've learned when dealing with toxic relationships/people. Hopefully this can help provide clarity if you're working through things but please bear in mind that what has worked for me will not necessarily work for everyone.
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Timestamps:
1:51 - (I) Guidelines
3:10 - Dealing with family
4:44 - (II) Strategy
6:15 - (III) A Few Things To Keep in Mind
9:25 - Final thoughts
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  1. Playzz Yt

    Playzz Yt

    5 giorni fa

    What my only parent my mother told me, "hang around wolf's you're going to learn to be a wolf".

  2. Playzz Yt

    Playzz Yt

    5 giorni fa

    What if this toxic person hits you and trys to manipulate you that's when you beat tf out of them

  3. Chad Best

    Chad Best

    7 giorni fa

    Many people have commented that they have cut toxic people , and now feel isolated and alone. In my case, I have done the same. There is a sense of freedom....but moments of isolation. This is the time to work on yourself.....and by working on yourself, you are becoming a better person and ultimately more attractive....the future will be bright....TRUST ME~

  4. Just Hayden

    Just Hayden

    11 giorni fa

    I cut a toxic friends who i knew for 3 years. Now I got threatened by him because I hang out with others not him.

  5. Aditya Bharat

    Aditya Bharat

    12 giorni fa

    I think the people who got hurt by toxic peoples are very tolerant nd good .......

  6. Mysterious Chaos

    Mysterious Chaos

    12 giorni fa

    So many videos out there about toxic people, and so few say what you said. "[You won't get out of their game by winning. You can't win it. They make the rules, and change them to keep themselves the winners.]" And THAT is the hallmark for me. Thank you!

  7. Deirdre Edwards

    Deirdre Edwards

    12 giorni fa

    This is the advice I needed, thank you 💕

  8. ΝΙΚΟΛΑΟΣ ΓΚΛΑΒΟΠΟΥΛΟΣ

    ΝΙΚΟΛΑΟΣ ΓΚΛΑΒΟΠΟΥΛΟΣ

    15 giorni fa

    Thanks for this video. Yes it was helpful and a reminder as well to change environment. Take care

  9. Joseph Brown III

    Joseph Brown III

    17 giorni fa

    I have “friends” and also family members who think they’re successfully planting seeds of doubt in my head. Little do they know they’ll never ever physically see me again. Just play the game they play until you successfully gain your peace and distance ✌🏾

  10. susy dyson

    susy dyson

    24 giorni fa

    value yourself .. listen and learn if useful. set boundaries ; be joyful of changes and leaving your comfort zone

  11. Hussein Mourad

    Hussein Mourad

    26 giorni fa

    i loved this video

  12. aim e crea

    aim e crea

    27 giorni fa

    gracias, lo necesitaba

  13. mandolaa

    mandolaa

    28 giorni fa

    Just a reminder that clingy and needy people are also toxic!

  14. Lawrence Chung

    Lawrence Chung

    Mese fa

    I removed mine including my old self years ago. Once I got better I realise that my closest family member is the toxic one (and now I am stuck 🤭)

  15. Charlie James

    Charlie James

    Mese fa

    Sometimes being alone can make you feel LESS lonely, more peaceful, and more loving. I am in a period of hermitude after cutting out toxic people (including family) and I have never felt better. I plan to reintegrate at some point and when I do I will make sure to avoid toxic people altogether. It is not worth it. ❤️

  16. MikeyGQOTA

    MikeyGQOTA

    Mese fa

    I let go of a lot friends because they were totally overstepping boundaries and inhibiting my self growth to better myself. I feel as a responsible adult that it is my responsibility to love myself as my neighbor and to do unto others as I'd do unto myself. My problem is that I overstepped my boundaries by trying to atone with friends that are struggling and trying to stay super positive and help them by being the bigger person or "big brother', only to be shot down by their shocking behaviors. I realize most of it is related to immune behavioral patterns where when you try to not be rude but objective in a positive way, they take offense to it and do some unbelievable things that really throw some curve balls your way. I am a person that is into self improvement and success, not overshadowing others with arrogance, but, people see me as rude and arrogant anyways - but - that's none of my business. My business is to stay on my integral of good faith and to remain strong, purge and heal when needed by connecting good foundations in my life and keeping them solid.

  17. Suma Kharel

    Suma Kharel

    Mese fa

    This video made me subscribe to the channel

  18. KING GAD-TUT ANKHAMUN RA

    KING GAD-TUT ANKHAMUN RA

    Mese fa

    So women #TOXIC

  19. Code Zalo

    Code Zalo

    Mese fa

    super scary to leave a job at this time, unfortunately not following education is biting me back finally, im lost.. im becoming toxic for not wanting to leave a situation that only benefits me financially, lost track of myself, time, what I wish to experience and just plain being lazy. learn from my mistakes.

  20. Chen

    Chen

    Mese fa

    This is so important! Thank you for sharing. It is so hard to face a toxic family member. It is very liberating to know it is not my job to change other people. Or make them understand me after decades of trying. Also it is important to know you will never win. Or change the situation. Good video!

  21. Hannan AM

    Hannan AM

    Mese fa

    I always get these aha moments when I watch your videos.

  22. Manasvi. S. Art

    Manasvi. S. Art

    Mese fa

    TYSFM Nathaniel for this vid! Finally makes me have a clear mindset at last!

  23. PRIYA Singh

    PRIYA Singh

    Mese fa

    For me toxic people are the poor people

  24. Oli Leech

    Oli Leech

    Mese fa

    I really need some advise I have attached myself over the past few years to a friend group that is genuinely racist and is so undiverse and as I play basketball which is uncommon where I live i get out down for that . I wanna cut them all off however I don’t want to lonely in school and I don’t have many other friends what should I do

  25. Marantan

    Marantan

    Mese fa

    Nathaniel I am so curious what your opinion on law of attraction is! 🌍

  26. Salma

    Salma

    Mese fa

    Thanks for the video

  27. AttackStart

    AttackStart

    Mese fa

    Was anyone else a little surprised that she "ran" away from home when she was an adult and her adult son was seemingly surprised by it? Maybe it is because I was raised by dysfunctional people, or maybe its because I was raised by people that did serious things in their teens (i.e. hard drugs or killing Nazis from the sky), but I was an adult by eighteen and it was "staying at home" or "leaving home"... I'm not sure what would qualify as running away at that point? Joining the merchant marines? Do they still exists? Do the kids know what the merchant marines are..? How old are kids these days guys? Is it older than 18? What is going on... I'm only 34. Is it still cool to say "cool"? What does the Z stand for?!?!!?

  28. Andromeda

    Andromeda

    Mese fa

    Respect for how clearly you explained this. My situation is like a giant fungus pfff. Let’s clean this up!

  29. ‘Hollow’ ’

    ‘Hollow’ ’

    Mese fa

    I love your energy.

  30. Tish Tish

    Tish Tish

    Mese fa

    I learned that seeing is believing if a person keep taking your kindness for weakness and don’t respect you and won’t reciprocate the same energy it’s time to let them go for GOOD!!! A leopard don’t change its spots

  31. Gina Hamlyn

    Gina Hamlyn

    Mese fa

    Developing standards, that's the clincher. Family members, definitely very difficult but once a line has been crossed, that's it, I'm done.

  32. Dil Cardyn

    Dil Cardyn

    Mese fa

    Wowww, thanks for a great video. 2020 has been a year of dropping toxic people for me & I'm just going to to keep the momentum going in 2021. Who else experienced the same?

  33. Aditi Kumari

    Aditi Kumari

    Mese fa

    Most friends ,actually all are toxic in my life,i just keep up with them formally,i have gone out of my ways to help them earlier bt i need my peace of mind and i dont want to be the doormat anymore,so i have distanced myself

  34. Ashraf Farassati

    Ashraf Farassati

    Mese fa

    How does one realistically cut out toxic people if they’re all family members? Namely, parents who do not respect boundaries.

  35. melanie

    melanie

    Mese fa

    I've never been more confused in my entire life trying to understand someone who doesn't understand themselves. Their mental illness clouded my judgement as I tried to separate them from their episodes of lashing out...when in reality they were the same person.

  36. prُəˈmِiːθْiəّs ْ

    prُəˈmِiːθْiəّs ْ

    Mese fa

    *You live just once, so make sure that you're living your life not others life.*

  37. Carlo Carlo

    Carlo Carlo

    Mese fa

    Lovely. And very smart.

  38. LOGONO

    LOGONO

    Mese fa

    Thank you

  39. Pierre Luc Delaire

    Pierre Luc Delaire

    Mese fa

    I just unsubscribed from your channel. Toxic

  40. Ger

    Ger

    Mese fa

    I had a “friend” who kept moving in on my girlfriend and he even tried to live off my mortgage and stay in my house rent free.

  41. Crafting Taurus

    Crafting Taurus

    Mese fa

    Thank you so much for this video, I deal with guilt about letting go of toxic people and this helps a lot.

  42. timeless values

    timeless values

    Mese fa

    How do you brake out of the toxic self-destructive beliefs you have accepted due to these people?

  43. Tafhima Khatun

    Tafhima Khatun

    Mese fa

    Hi, I'm struggling at the moment with some relationships, and I wanted to ask if I could confirm whether or not this is a toxic situation/person or not because I can't distinguish between love and manipulation in my family. My sister makes me feel inferior. I have no idea whether this is consciously woven into me by her, but I feel like lesser. She is quite cynical, sarcastic, but that's also part of her interactions with everyone, and she is a very intelligent woman. However, when we talk, she is at the centre of the conversation. There is no room for me. Sometimes I think it's my fault, that I'm not being more assertive, but as an older sister, I feel she also has the responsibility to create an environment which is safe for me to express myself. I do not feel safe expressing myself to her. When I do, when I get emotional, she also never gives any progressive advice. Most of her advice consists of 'oh I've felt that' and 'you get used to it'. She depresses me. She is a very pragmatic, realistic type of person. But she sometimes says things like 'this is just part of who I am' which makes me think she has a fixed mindset and is not willing to improve or change. Recently I tried to express my anxiety to her, that I was intimidated by her, and she ended up getting emotional and I felt so guilty that it was only once I had a few hours away from her that I realised she was upset by my pain, as if I wasn't the one in pain. She expressed in the conversation that we were the only sisters we had for each other, and that she needed me. This also rings alarm bells to me, but there still is a voice in my head telling me it's all my suspicions and false accusations, that she is not at fault. But now I am writing this, I clearly see she is at fault. But I don't know how to get rid of the doubt. Sometimes it overwhelms me and I accept my life in the shadow of my sister, and it is tempting to remain there, rather than free myself and become true to myself and what I want. For anyone who reads this, please feel free to give an honest third-view opinion. I feel badly shut off from people, only relying on my intuitions. God bless you, Nathanial, for this insight.

  44. Leishmania

    Leishmania

    Mese fa

    Can I kill my parents?

  45. Kim Phan

    Kim Phan

    Mese fa

    Cutting out the toxic people you once felt close to is kind of like going through rehab, isn't it? When you think about it, it is really no different than giving up on a bad drug which gives you comfort and pleasure for a short term but leaves awful long term consequences.

  46. mimi dav

    mimi dav

    Mese fa

    He look Lebanese

  47. Nur Ashika

    Nur Ashika

    Mese fa

    This is the best video in youtube

  48. Jesti Perezki

    Jesti Perezki

    Mese fa

    74 toxic people disliked this video

  49. kelvin edward

    kelvin edward

    Mese fa

    I'm so excited because my broken marriage has been restored,my ex wife is back after she left me and our 2 kids for another man with the help of Dr Ogedegbe on ITput channel i got her back.

  50. eineperson die keine Lust hat

    eineperson die keine Lust hat

    Mese fa

    I dont agree with this, if everyone would only concentrate on people that give them good vibes. People who have psychological problems or did not have the best past (people who are toxic) will just feel even worse and it brings them in even worse situations than if everyone just gives a peace of their well-being up to someone who is "toxic"

  51. Aislinn Smith

    Aislinn Smith

    2 mesi fa

    In 2020, I was introduced to a woman who was trying to get out of an abusive relationship but was also a drug-abuser and alcoholic. Because of her own self-destructive tendencies and the effects it was having on my family, I started to have panic attacks and self-harm to cope with the fear, terror, and overwhelming stress. There were days where I woke up and wondered if I when I would get that phone call saying she had killed herself or was killed. I finally told myself that I needed to get out and I slowly began to distance myself because I started to get to point of extreme depression and constant suicidal thoughts. However, I still haven't fully gotten out of that relationship, so I guess that's why I'm here.

  52. Kathy Smith

    Kathy Smith

    2 mesi fa

    Thanks for sharing this. It’s tearing me apart.

    • Kathy Smith

      Kathy Smith

      2 mesi fa

      it WAS tearing me apart. I made a decision and told him im not comfortable with the situation and need my space.

  53. Sages 101

    Sages 101

    2 mesi fa

    you know it's a toxic friendship when you "dump" them and you feel so free. Like everything weighing you down has been lifted.

  54. meesterbingbong

    meesterbingbong

    2 mesi fa

    I recently removed my best friend of 15 years from my life. there were some issues that we have always had between each other. However the past year we've been friends has been terrible. It started with obvious selfish behaviour. I like to mountain bike and he kind of got into it because I was into it, however I would go out and ride several days a week while he would ride maybe a couple times over a couple months. So obviously there is going to be skill difference, but he hated that. He told me he'd rather not mountain bike with me because im "better" at it than him. So I asked him, "if we both skated and I learned I kick flip first, would you care?" He said he would "stop skating with me because im better". WOW, this was when I started to think about our friendship a little bit more. It's been a little over a month since I've talked to him. I think I made the right choice. I am really trying to do better for myself and improve my life in all aspects and it seemed like he couldn't feel happy for me. He just seemed like he was mad or that I was leaving him behind. I felt like random people supported me more than this person. The REAL breaking point for me was when I went on a trip with my girlfriend for a week. I came back from that trip feeling energized and ready to start the spring semester. I was motivated and optimistic which is kind of a new thing. For the first time in a while I felt genuinely happy, I didn't have doubt or bad thoughts swimming around in my head. My friend called me the day I came back because he wanted to play video games. He moved far away for school so this is really the only way to "hangout". When I told him id rather work on music(my passion, what im trying to make my career), it wasn't met with understanding and support, instead he yelled at me. He said I'm wasting my time, that I don't do anything with my life anyways, so I might as well just give up and play video games with him. He then told me to go fuck myself and he hung up! LMAO. I was pretty taken back by the whole situation but I felt all of those great feelings and motivation immediately vanish once I got off the phone. Then I realized this cunt is fucking up my life. So I blocked his number, he never reached out to ask why or to see if I was okay, he never contacted me any other way, instead he responded by blocking me on all social media. Having blocked him and completely removed him from my life I can say it was worth it. My mental health has never been better. It kind of makes me think, what if I did this a couple years ago? Would I have branched out and actually found like minded people? Would I be a better person if I didn't have this negative influence on my life? idk what could have happened but I know now that the kind people you surround yourself with is extremely important. Go find some cool ass fools and prop each other up. Love one another.

  55. Fairy Lily

    Fairy Lily

    2 mesi fa

    What if they’re your brothers girlfriend and they come over whenever they have to quarantine 💀💀😢

  56. Devanshi

    Devanshi

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you so much for making this video

  57. J

    J

    2 mesi fa

    “They make up the rules and you can never win.” Omg! This makes it so much easier to stop trying to freaking win the game

  58. T G

    T G

    2 mesi fa

    Fate will make you get rid of toxic people in your life in due time regardless.

  59. Isha Sharma

    Isha Sharma

    2 mesi fa

    This video is so relevant to me now ❤✔

  60. HLB512

    HLB512

    2 mesi fa

    What you say about others... that one stuck with me

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    Stephanie Duncan

    2 mesi fa

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  62. Saint Mary Bulicek

    Saint Mary Bulicek

    2 mesi fa

    This is me fulfilling my promise, he’s my favorite after so many heartbreaks. I thought it was time to give myself a break and focus on my job while trying to heal from my previous toxic relationship. After about a year and half I met a man who turned out to be my daughter’s boss , I was reluctant at first but his persistence and high spiritedness got me submissive. We started getting along so well , no day passes without constant communication, I fell in love and didn’t want to be hurt ever again; told him my weaknesses and he told me his, along the line he came across his ex and his attitude towards me started getting cold. Seemed like deja vu all over and so I couldn’t let the anxiety tear me apart. I met a colleague who introduced me to the best set of Private investigators ultimate hack , I contacted and hired them almost immediately and they requested a down payment to commence the job after targets cell number was provided. After few hrs they responded with all the deleted and recent messages , Whats App Facebook Instagram Snapchat gps and archives of pictures he has been sending out; I practically had access to his phone without his knowledge. Turns out he connived with his young sibling to test my patience and tolerance, all the info was carted to me , thanks to the hackers I now pass his test with ease, lol . For assistance on how to track or monitor your spouse email ultimatehack003@ gmail com or Whats App/call/text +17202954268 I wish you well as You find out the truth about your partner just like I did .

  63. Bethaney Perks

    Bethaney Perks

    2 mesi fa

    Amazingly helpful. Your ability to stay so calm and factual during a subject which is incredibly triggering (I'm going through divorce and custody battles with a domestic abuser) is inspiring. Thank you

    • Saint Mary Bulicek

      Saint Mary Bulicek

      2 mesi fa

      This is me fulfilling my promise, he’s my favorite after so many heartbreaks. I thought it was time to give myself a break and focus on my job while trying to heal from my previous toxic relationship. After about a year and half I met a man who turned out to be my daughter’s boss , I was reluctant at first but his persistence and high spiritedness got me submissive. We started getting along so well , no day passes without constant communication, I fell in love and didn’t want to be hurt ever again; told him my weaknesses and he told me his, along the line he came across his ex and his attitude towards me started getting cold. Seemed like deja vu all over and so I couldn’t let the anxiety tear me apart. I met a colleague who introduced me to the best set of Private investigators ultimate hack , I contacted and hired them almost immediately and they requested a down payment to commence the job after targets cell number was provided. After few hrs they responded with all the deleted and recent messages , Whats App Facebook Instagram Snapchat gps and archives of pictures he has been sending out; I practically had access to his phone without his knowledge. Turns out he connived with his young sibling to test my patience and tolerance, all the info was carted to me , thanks to the hackers I now pass his test with ease, lol . For assistance on how to track or monitor your spouse email ultimatehack003@ gmail com or Whats App/call/text +17202954268 I wish you well as You find out the truth about your partner just like I did .

  64. Cress Reeves

    Cress Reeves

    2 mesi fa

    I really need to remove someone, God make a way. When people are envious of you and you generally try to be a considerate person. You have to learn to stop letting people take advantage of your kindness. I will get rid of her from my life, indeed!

    • Saint Mary Bulicek

      Saint Mary Bulicek

      2 mesi fa

      This is me fulfilling my promise, he’s my favorite after so many heartbreaks. I thought it was time to give myself a break and focus on my job while trying to heal from my previous toxic relationship. After about a year and half I met a man who turned out to be my daughter’s boss , I was reluctant at first but his persistence and high spiritedness got me submissive. We started getting along so well , no day passes without constant communication, I fell in love and didn’t want to be hurt ever again; told him my weaknesses and he told me his, along the line he came across his ex and his attitude towards me started getting cold. Seemed like deja vu all over and so I couldn’t let the anxiety tear me apart. I met a colleague who introduced me to the best set of Private investigators ultimate hack , I contacted and hired them almost immediately and they requested a down payment to commence the job after targets cell number was provided. After few hrs they responded with all the deleted and recent messages , Whats App Facebook Instagram Snapchat gps and archives of pictures he has been sending out; I practically had access to his phone without his knowledge. Turns out he connived with his young sibling to test my patience and tolerance, all the info was carted to me , thanks to the hackers I now pass his test with ease, lol . For assistance on how to track or monitor your spouse email ultimatehack003@ gmail com or Whats App/call/text +17202954268 I wish you well as You find out the truth about your partner just like I did .

  65. The One

    The One

    2 mesi fa

    Such a nice video..Toxicity generates more toxicity❣️🙌🏻

  66. Tom Eastman

    Tom Eastman

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you Nathaniel

  67. Emily

    Emily

    2 mesi fa

    I watched this on a day where I was aimlessly watching youtube to distract my mind from really intense and toxic situations with my family. This really helped me feel not so alone in it all. It also gave me strength again to maintain my boundaries and realize when it is time to cut ties. Thank you Nathaniel

  68. Bob Bob

    Bob Bob

    2 mesi fa

    Anyone want my sister when she drinks gin

  69. Kindra McHenry

    Kindra McHenry

    2 mesi fa

    Your thoughts on everything (not just this video) inspire me to believe that there are people in this world that think like me. Thank you.

  70. imaginecouldntbeme

    imaginecouldntbeme

    2 mesi fa

    i really like this my friend isaac hes very.. weird this level to the point where its going too far how do i fix this

  71. Crooked Little Flower

    Crooked Little Flower

    2 mesi fa

    thank you

  72. siempre fidelis

    siempre fidelis

    2 mesi fa

    Man . Im a Priest and i preched that every sunday . this is so thruthfull. people who are toxic kill themselves and others and God

  73. kamkam_ bright

    kamkam_ bright

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you so much for sharing this information. I really need someone to told me this in my life! Now, i can finally move on. Great day ahead

  74. Nathalia Lee

    Nathalia Lee

    2 mesi fa

    It really helped me stand strong,

  75. TBD

    TBD

    2 mesi fa

    You’re so lucky your mom is a good mom.

  76. Fatou Mbaye

    Fatou Mbaye

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you 1 million times❤️

  77. smoozerish

    smoozerish

    2 mesi fa

    This is great advice. Going through this right now with toxic people I have been surrounded by for so many years. As I began to do work on myself to improve my life but some people in my life resented my growth. They want to keep you co-dependent. These are the type of people to cut-off completely.

  78. Richard Jensen

    Richard Jensen

    2 mesi fa

    I came here because my mom is driving me crazy in her old age.She is stubborn and a little senile.Atleast I am looking for some help and comfort with this.Older people are stuck in their ways,so I will try new ways to handle her bullcrap.

  79. Nghi Quach

    Nghi Quach

    2 mesi fa

    Great helpful video! Thank you!

  80. Koo Kie

    Koo Kie

    3 mesi fa

    In this moment i haved one friend... sprry fot bad english 🙇🏻‍♀️. This ex friend with other people was very kind.. but with friend she was toxic people ... saying abput other people bad words... and talking about s%%... we are gling in the same center to learn Korean... and while lesson is starded i just say it do not say bad words for kid... amd this ex friend say it to me shut the ~~~~ up... amd her friends started saying about me so bad.. my hand right now shaking .. And i Dont know what to do.... go say them shut up or let this like this... While watching this video my pain a bit gone.. Thank u 🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️🙇🏻‍♀️

  81. Sushruta Chousalkar

    Sushruta Chousalkar

    3 mesi fa

    YOU CAN NEVER WIN THE GAME, THEY MAKE THE RULES!! SO TRUE. RESONATED DEEPLY WITH ME!

  82. ipeh123

    ipeh123

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you so much Nathaniel, never knew i needed this video 😣

  83. funky finn

    funky finn

    3 mesi fa

    i have a friend group that makes fun of me for my interests and my coping mechanisms 😀

  84. Ella Jeanseau

    Ella Jeanseau

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you. This was what I needed today. Thank you...

  85. Marcos

    Marcos

    3 mesi fa

    Dont be a people pleaser,nobody respect you that way...Be assertive but not rude. Learn how to say no!

  86. Marcos

    Marcos

    3 mesi fa

    Associate yourself with people BETTER THAN YOU!You will start drifting in that direction...

  87. adorable doggo

    adorable doggo

    3 mesi fa

    I hope this lets you realize that you can't make everyone like you, evading those people doesn't make you a bad person, it makes you self-aware

  88. pipis 0riginal

    pipis 0riginal

    3 mesi fa

    My friends have changed in the past 2 years and they hang out with others talking shit about me .But I am on 9 grate and if I say to them that I don’t want to be friends with them it will be awkward beachside we see each other every day.

  89. Top Tier Nessa

    Top Tier Nessa

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you so much for this !

  90. KYABAGYE ESTHER

    KYABAGYE ESTHER

    3 mesi fa

    Toxic begins with that magnetic force of attraction . Paradox of toxic is two way .

  91. Amie Vandzura

    Amie Vandzura

    3 mesi fa

    I really needed to hear this, thank you for giving me clarity on my situation in such a kind and compassionate way.

  92. Kleka Senpai

    Kleka Senpai

    3 mesi fa

    PAKISTAAAAN I LOVE PAKISTAAAANNNNNN

  93. Shubham gupta

    Shubham gupta

    3 mesi fa

    Sir it was so much helpfull to me . Nothingless it showed a hope to tackle such thing .

  94. Jake Young

    Jake Young

    3 mesi fa

    Realizing that I can and have toxic traits while still surrounded by toxic people is a heartbreaking but also freeing realization. Here's to improvement and being the best I can be for myself and for those around me.

  95. Levi Ackerman

    Levi Ackerman

    3 mesi fa

    I hope that you can cover a video about how to deal with toxic people who uses tactics on you just like what you have said in the last part of this video Btw thank you this video really helped me alot about understanding this kinds situation. I hope that this comment will reach you

  96. Tank The Pitbull

    Tank The Pitbull

    3 mesi fa

    I had to cut off so many people off but my life has improved drastically. No more chaos and drama

  97. Adolf Hitler

    Adolf Hitler

    3 mesi fa

    No problem I all reported and ban them in my socials because they are cursing in my post

  98. Samwell

    Samwell

    3 mesi fa

    What an amazing video!!!!!❤️

  99. Sirenne M.

    Sirenne M.

    3 mesi fa

    you are very smart. Thanks

  100. Deleted Account

    Deleted Account

    3 mesi fa

    How do we do this when we live with the person, the amount of stuff, far away from family, in a pandemic, started a new life and have no idea what to do/how to do it?? If you want to continue, how do you stop someone from controlling your stuff like vehicle and electronics? I know you were saying not to fight back and separate yourself from that but how would you do this? I feel drained.

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