Watch This If You're Feeling Lonely (I got advice from experts)

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  1. Aiden Law

    Aiden Law

    4 giorni fa

    I was lonely before the pandemic

  2. kaveski Suzuki

    kaveski Suzuki

    15 giorni fa

    No English subtitles even when the girls speaking via the phone????

  3. Rayowag

    Rayowag

    16 giorni fa

    Oh, so there is a reason my generation keeps half-joking about wanting to live in the forest with a small assortment of people instead of having capitalism drag them further away from themselves and away from fulfilling their needs by making them dependent on money. Who would've thought that messes us up mentally and nobody wants to change the systemic issue huh 👀

  4. Moon Maiden Healing

    Moon Maiden Healing

    19 giorni fa

    I needed this. Thank you

  5. Gracie Stronk

    Gracie Stronk

    20 giorni fa

    how the hell did this just show up as i started feeling lonely. 😂🙏

  6. aiborie

    aiborie

    24 giorni fa

    17:17 If you're depressed, if you're anxious, don't let anyone tell you that you're weak, or you're crazy, or you're biologically broken. You are not. You're not alone. We got to fight for the changes. And again, depression and anxiety can in one way help us, these are signals, that's telling us that something has gone wrong. What we need to do is stop insulting these signals. By saying that they are a sign of weakness, or madness, or purely biological, and start listening to them. Because they are telling us something we really need to hear. - Johann Hari

  7. aiborie

    aiborie

    24 giorni fa

    05:31 "To end loneliness, you need other people--plus something else. You also need...to feel you are sharing something with the other person, or the group, that is meaningful to _both_ of you... A one-way relationship can't cure loneliness. Only two-way (or more) relationships can do that." - Lost Connections by Johann Hari

  8. Jessi Brader

    Jessi Brader

    Mese fa

    I love you man.. thanks for helping us

  9. Rebecca Lankford

    Rebecca Lankford

    Mese fa

    Family values and connections. Extended family. Tribe. Community. Nurturing and developing parenting. Developing skills, intrest and talents and feeding/developing them. Making connections - friendships that support those intrest. Sharing individual talents within the family community for the enbetterment of self and the whole. Rouge capitalism and having to over work to make ends met seperate people and hinder personal development. No one home when both parents work.

  10. Jahzy Jase

    Jahzy Jase

    Mese fa

    Yesss that's right!!! We gotta talk about it! Loneliness is really actual since 2020. I just release a video about it it's a really important subject!!

  11. doodle rose

    doodle rose

    Mese fa

    dude I just need a fucking hug for like 5 minutes straight

  12. Ruaraidh Williams

    Ruaraidh Williams

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you for this video! It has been incredibly calming and healing on thus slightly lonely evening. :)

  13. Godavari Joshi 3872

    Godavari Joshi 3872

    2 mesi fa

    I really went in deep to understand why I felt sad and lonely. I had no friends right from first grade. Whatever classmates I had I never felt any connection to them. When I would complain to my mother she would say, with good intentions, "but you are such a sweet girl, you are so kind and amazing. You listen to everyone. Why wouldn't ANYONE want to be friends with you?" This led to me thinking that they are at fault for not being friends with me. And no efforts to make and retain friendships was made from my side. It is only now, nearing ten years later that I realised that friendships need effort from my side. I have to talk about their likes and dislikes even if I don't feel the same emotions as them. And everything I like doesn't have to be liked by that friend, everything I dislike doesn't have to be disliked by them. This was a startling revelation and I'm still grappling my head around this. I know eventually I'll be able to make friends who last and who make me feel happy genuinely as long as I keep making efforts from my side. ❤️ I thank God for being by my side when I felt I had no one with me. I thank Him for this revelation. Hare Krishna!

  14. Diana Johnson

    Diana Johnson

    2 mesi fa

    Making real meaningful connections with like minded people is the hardest thing to do in this world

  15. Cube

    Cube

    2 mesi fa

    I follow people in school because I don't have anybody I can just hang out with. The people I follow normally talk to their friends/best-friends.

  16. Kawaii Senshi

    Kawaii Senshi

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you!

  17. Star_ Dust

    Star_ Dust

    2 mesi fa

    This video was great but how would this apply for someone with schizoaffective disorder?

  18. Luciano Matzkevich

    Luciano Matzkevich

    2 mesi fa

    Oh, man... I'm from Argentina... Thanks for the spanish subtitles and for this video... This video is awesome. Make me cry :( Thanks for this ♥

  19. smoothops op

    smoothops op

    2 mesi fa

    Covid 19 will make people feel much more lonely now when you can't come close to , touch , hold , kiss , or socialize in a normal way with people. Alcoholism, drug addition , depression, thoughts of suicide , anxiety have become more common now and is increasing among people. We're dealing with the worst case senerio.

  20. gabriela casares

    gabriela casares

    2 mesi fa

    sometimes I really feel I gave up trying to conect with people, eventhough I´m feeling lonely

  21. Menna Mohamed El Zahar

    Menna Mohamed El Zahar

    2 mesi fa

    your videos look elegant. always. shall you make a video about this to maybe share your design ,, your process? thanks.

  22. Dresseos. Alquiler de vestidos y accesorios de fiesta para invitadas

    Dresseos. Alquiler de vestidos y accesorios de fiesta para invitadas

    2 mesi fa

    Love❤️

  23. Pepe Sabag

    Pepe Sabag

    2 mesi fa

    Dude for couse of the pandemic i join to a group of AA and thats true , i didnt know anything about my emotions and what i think , im 25 year old and i regret not knowing my emotion younger , i hope every person try to conect and know himself to be better human.

  24. Kathy Windsor

    Kathy Windsor

    2 mesi fa

    Love and having a partner ends loneliness.

    • My life matters

      My life matters

      2 mesi fa

      Having knowledge of self and self love prevents loneliness. The feeling of loneliness is a symptom of insecurity. When people have their mind right and they got it going on, they dont feel lonely. I see a lotta insecure people in the comment section, so bad that I couldn't read anymore comments, its pathetic. What brought me to this video is Im dining alone in a restaurant. I look around and I can't find 1 person enjoying their meal in isolation. Groups of 4, 5, 6, and 7, not 1 of them feels secure enough to dine in alone. Same thing happened yesterday in the movie theatre. Out here in New York movie theaters are opened at 50% capacity or 50 people in each theater. I look around and no one is by themselves, except for me and 1 other person. How did it get like this? I mean, why are so many people insecure? Is partnership really the answer? People dont know what they want. They start complaining about their partner and how much they wanna see other people. Im finished with all that relationship stuff. Im at a point now where I'd rather use my hand, I've had enough women. Sorry for the perversion but thats the way it is. Anyway, thats it, just thought I'd throw in my 2 cents.

  25. Jeremiah

    Jeremiah

    2 mesi fa

    Narcissists are always on the hunt for something they are never going to find. They pretend to be someone else to ensnare the victim with deception, lies, pretending to feel one way, when they feel the complete opposite. A Narcissist should not be trusted and are often toxic with an excessive need for admiration, disregard for others feelings, an inability to handle any criticism and a sense of entitlement. I used to think that love could cure anything but it only fed my narc's enormous ego. It is important to be wise when dealing with a narcissist and I’m glad that cyberhackinggenius helped cloned my husband’s phone. I got access to all his dealings both on phone and social media without touching his phone. All I did was share his phone number with Cyberhackinggenius and I was able to read both his new and deleted messages from my phone through a remote link to a programmed App containing cloned cell information. My husband was a cheating Narcissist and I’m glad to find out all his secrets and infidelity with the help of cyberhackinggenius. I’m finally going through divorce with lots of evidence against him. I read all his deleted and recent chats on Whatsapp,Facebook and Instagram. Hacker Gavin also helped me in checking if my phone number is being hacked and he secured all my numbers from unauthorized access with a very powerful encryption software. I also explained to him how I got scammed online and he helped me in recovering all my lost funds to scammers online. Hacker Gavin also helped me with my Bitcoin investment and I now make 60% profit as ROI every 24 hours for my invested BTC. You can contact this great hacker “Gavin” through his email cyberhackinggenius@gmail. com and WhatsApp: +19256795146 . You can also call and text his Cellular number on +16265152216 and thank me later for this great information.....

  26. Errin Taylor

    Errin Taylor

    2 mesi fa

    This pandemic has honestly shown me how lonely I really am in this world. Social media is making it worse. There are times all I want is someone to ask me how I’m doing and not feel obligated to do so, just to do it because they care.

    • Trapp Entertainment

      Trapp Entertainment

      17 giorni fa

      Hope you are doing OK😊

  27. Phyl Karanja

    Phyl Karanja

    2 mesi fa

    Anyone wanna be my friend.. I feel really overwhelmed and lonely..I just wish I had someone...a friebd

  28. greasy nips

    greasy nips

    2 mesi fa

    I'm getting tired of it honestly, everyday its harder to hold on, I just want someone to talk to but I don't even know how to express what im feeling, i need some fucking help and I can't get it

    • Naomi Cah

      Naomi Cah

      2 mesi fa

      hi, id love to talk to you - if you're up for it we can exchange socials (:

  29. Creative Dreaming

    Creative Dreaming

    2 mesi fa

    *I am feeling pretty lonely tonight. My friend said that she wanted to hang up and not talk. I said "Please, no." And she just said she didn't feel like talking. Why tf can't I just feel full by myself.*

  30. Linda Does Stuff

    Linda Does Stuff

    2 mesi fa

    I had been lonely and isolated for years before the lockdown

  31. Valentin Pepiot

    Valentin Pepiot

    2 mesi fa

    Thank you for this video Nathaniel

  32. Verna Harris

    Verna Harris

    2 mesi fa

    I honestly believe people are more lonely today because many are not connected to God of the Holy Bible.❤❤❤

  33. Caroline B

    Caroline B

    2 mesi fa

    itput.info/zone/video/fq-XhXp_3c_QaqQ&feature=share

  34. Bob Bob

    Bob Bob

    2 mesi fa

    Tbh last year not going to work due to covid has been the best “working “ year of my life ,I could totally get used to it ,but accept that for some it has been hard and society should focus to help these people ,especially those that are having financial problem,and problems in general

  35. PEEN

    PEEN

    2 mesi fa

    ive been feeling really lonely and stressed. i've been doing the same things since 4 months. workout study and sleep and its like there's no warm feeling in my heart. im not sad with my life im just lonely

  36. Someone Someone

    Someone Someone

    2 mesi fa

    Some are doomed to be lonely. I am one.

  37. LANDON FRYMIRE

    LANDON FRYMIRE

    2 mesi fa

    I'm lonely and sad QwQ

  38. Leo Fischer

    Leo Fischer

    3 mesi fa

    I hope you get noticed that this video helped quite a lot to at least one person, me.

  39. Gurpreet Singh

    Gurpreet Singh

    3 mesi fa

    Not mean to judge him. Great film maker.. but seems like he's feeling lonely while having many people around him . But seems like he intract with many people in order to make videos.. where.. I have nobody to share my feeling with . I feel so lonely that my blood pressure is elevated all the times, tired , loosing interest into everything .. struggling with immigration for past 4 years .. no one responding when it comes to dating .. over 120 rejections online... physically not attractive. Lost investment.. need to take care of parents as they are getting old but can't sitting on the other side of the world .. don't know what more to come ..

  40. razian

    razian

    3 mesi fa

    wow, this video really helps me to realize why am I felt so broken these weeks. thank you! 🙏

  41. Cindy Bogart

    Cindy Bogart

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you for this video. Loneliness & depression has hit me hard lately. I los my little dog in October... & realized how important she was in my life. This having to stay away from people with the virus has me exhausted You can’t go anywhere or see other people. I need to find myself again.

  42. Crocodile's Drawings

    Crocodile's Drawings

    3 mesi fa

    I feel more lonely than ever My friends just found better people than me and my family loves our dog more than they like me. I feel very empty.

  43. Mathavaraj M

    Mathavaraj M

    3 mesi fa

    I'm not feeling Alone.. Because loneliness is always with me😊😶

  44. Habiba Belamine

    Habiba Belamine

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you Nathaniel and your guests for this fantastic and much needed video. I really appreciate the "realness" vide. Love from Morocco.

    • Habiba Belamine

      Habiba Belamine

      3 mesi fa

      Vibe*

  45. hank aul

    hank aul

    3 mesi fa

    mahalo n aloha

  46. John Talmage

    John Talmage

    3 mesi fa

    No matter how different we may think ourselves to be, we all experience life's emotions and feelings in the most common of ways..... The difference between solitude and loneliness is simply whether you have a choice in the matter or not

  47. Elizabeth Norris

    Elizabeth Norris

    3 mesi fa

    This is a really beautiful message and I needed to hear it. Thank you

  48. nnaattt

    nnaattt

    3 mesi fa

    It's nice to know that lost connections is probably the real cause of depression, but if you don't have a lot of friends to start with, it makes it even more depressing sometimes

  49. Weird Al

    Weird Al

    3 mesi fa

    I’m gonna be honest, I watched this video to try but it couldn’t help me😔 I don’t know what to do anymore it feels like more than just being sad, anxious, or depressed I just don’t get what I’m doing wrong

  50. Lemon pie

    Lemon pie

    3 mesi fa

    ☀️Ranting☀️ I live in a toxic household so i'm not alone, it's just that I feel the lonliest i've ever been. Being around them is suffocating we're only allowed out for 1 hour once a day. I don't feel sad, I feel frustrated that I can't feel anything. School seems meaningless now since why are we continuing an education when the world is crumbling around us. I just feel...empty.

  51. Roller Girl

    Roller Girl

    3 mesi fa

    I wish there were a place to talk to others about these topics because this comment section is so helpful and I would love to talk to some of you

  52. Liza Huseman

    Liza Huseman

    3 mesi fa

    This is an amazing video! Thank you☺️

  53. NotANameist

    NotANameist

    3 mesi fa

    Press X to doubt Johann Hari’s story. Surprised it didn’t end with “and then every westerner in the room stood and applauded!”

  54. The One

    The One

    3 mesi fa

    The loneliest feeling one can feel is the acknowledgement of the fact that not even your significant other can fill that empty void in your chest. It's so great that you don't know what to do with it,what plug(friends, family etc.) actually fits it. It's this awareness that drives us to depression tbh

  55. ironpenguin42

    ironpenguin42

    3 mesi fa

    Thank you so much. I really needed this.

  56. Ember Sulaiman

    Ember Sulaiman

    3 mesi fa

    : )

  57. Fahmida Mashura

    Fahmida Mashura

    4 mesi fa

    *If you ever feel lonely, watch a horror movie. After a while, you won't feel like you're alone. 😂*

    • maintain.

      maintain.

      Giorno fa

      And then what? If I watch a horror movie everytime I feel lonely, then I'd be watching a horror movie 3 times per day

    • Sa Ra

      Sa Ra

      2 giorni fa

      😂😂😂

    • JINANMOSS

      JINANMOSS

      2 mesi fa

      Lmao

  58. EMZERE

    EMZERE

    4 mesi fa

    Did someone have the name of the first song ?

  59. Papa Romie

    Papa Romie

    4 mesi fa

    i made this comment section to 1,000

  60. Random Act of Kindness

    Random Act of Kindness

    4 mesi fa

    ONE CAN BUT DREAM!............ Just Looking For A Friend, In An Ocean Of Strangers If I Had A Friend, We Would Travel, The Seas & Oceans Beckon Just For One Night, We Would Rule Our Kingdom Transform Into Micro Bubbles, Whilst Swimming With The Fishes Riding The Crest Of A Wave On Our Voyage Of Discovery Beholding Wonderment Beyond Belief Exhausting Endless Possibilities Finally Taking Refuge On Some Distant Shore Shared Experiences Recounted Planning Our Next Adventure Dawn Breaks, My Dream Fades My Friend, Suddenly Gone Before my Eyes, The Oceans Recede Like My Reasons To Exist. The Reality Of An Empty Life Returns Was My Friend Real, Or Just imagined? Another Day Of Loneliness Looms Until I Can Dream It All Over Again. By Random Act Of Kindness. For All The Other Lonely Souls Out There

  61. WeTakeAction

    WeTakeAction

    4 mesi fa

    I spent many years of my life in denial and self distraction. I would make changes but always revert back. I was frustrated with myself and wondering why it is that I am not able to move forward. The truth is I lacked social confidence. My fear of talking and socializing with people held me back. I took up a tension journal. Every day I would step into at least three social interactions that increased the tension and allowed myself to embrace my fears and the awkwardness. I was able to change my confidence in how I relate to people and build meaningful friendships. I have also had passionate romances which I so much longed for when I was still spending most of the time by myself. To anyone reading this, if you feel lonely and isolated then I´d love to have a chat with you, face to face via Skype and help you overcome this. I know what it feels like to have little friends and meaningful connections. I know what it feels like to know deep inside that there is more to life yet being to afraid to take action to move forward. Think about how your life will be like in 5 years from now if you don´t change. I am happy to help anyone who is willing to take an honest look at their life and take action to move forward.

  62. dexie 13

    dexie 13

    4 mesi fa

    if you are alone, you may not have friends...but you found yourself --me

  63. BLANK

    BLANK

    4 mesi fa

    Lol why am I watching this, even I have lot of idiots with me🤦‍♀️🤣

  64. Lil Zerkov

    Lil Zerkov

    4 mesi fa

    Was always afraid that my high school friends were the only ones Ive got now it’s true been almost 3 years into university n I have no one man literally no one and the COVID lockdown only makes it worse. Found a part time job as a courier n still dnt have any co worker to talk too. I just deliver from one place to another why man 8 billion ppl on earth and I have no one?

  65. Christopher Bogardus

    Christopher Bogardus

    4 mesi fa

    B roll: Chef's kiss when Nathan is talking with a guest: "sure this side view pointing at the screens alright" I don't know if that was intentional, but when most of the video is conversations on the computer or phone, please make it so that we don't feel like we are watching a conversation over your shoulder. just a bit of constructive criticism.

  66. John Hester

    John Hester

    4 mesi fa

    Thank you for your video. One question I've had since as far as I can remember is; Do people deserve a better 🌍? Or do they need to learn how to be deserving of it: worthy (or however you'd like to phrase it)? Some lessons can't be taught but, as your video suggests, the path can be shared even if just for an instance. My logic tells me to remember the story of the master and the apprentice but my heart feels the pains of inaction. I both recognize and resent others without meaning to; tbh that probably stems from self-loathing though...but what do I know right 😔

  67. כולנו ביחד

    כולנו ביחד

    4 mesi fa

    It’s a Draw! Hash It Out! Whether Trump or Biden end up in the White House, neither will be the president of the United States. He will be the president of only the Americans who elected him. A president who is one hundred percent accepted by half the country, and one hundred percent rejected by the other half, cannot be regarded as POTUS. It leaves the American people with two options: hash it out or fight it out. I hope they choose the former. America is a highly developed country, especially when it comes to politics. As with any developed nation, its people are very opinionated. And the more opinionated they become, the harder it is for them to budge from their opinions. They become less tolerant and more arrogant, less attentive and more assertive, until finally, the whole country explodes in riots, violence, and civil war ensues. This is the natural way, and countries should watch carefully what is happening in America because it will also happen to them. It’s the natural evolution of human nature. Despite the morose prognosis, humans have more than human nature going for them; they’ve got intellect. When a situation becomes an evident impasse, look for a bypass. There is no reason things should end in violence if we already see that this is where we’re going; we can reroute. There is a lot of truth in Albert Einstein’s famous adage, “The problems we are dealing with cannot be solved at the same level of thinking with which we created them.” But there is more to it than that; we, that is our nature, created them so as to rise to a higher level. Consider this: If everything had been alright while we were living in caves, would we ever have come out of them? If everything we did then succeeded, would we ever develop new tactics or tools to improve our lives and make them easier? Life keeps posing problems now as it always has, and always for the same purpose-to drive us forward, impel us to evolve. And today, evolution centers mainly on society. Indeed, our society is lame. Human relations everywhere are plagued with suspicion, animosity, alienation, and hatred. Do we like feeling this way toward each other? If we did, we wouldn’t see the rates of depression, substance abuse, violence, homicide and suicide that we are seeing. We have become a society of sad, depressed, scared, and mainly hopeless people, and it’s all because there is a demon inside of us that makes us hate each other. But it’s not a demon; it is human nature, the same engine that has developed us throughout the ages. Previously, it made us feel uncomfortable physically so we would develop easier and ways to live. Now it makes us feel uncomfortable emotionally so we will develop easier ways to live with one another. This is why the Left and Right will never agree. Republicans will always think that Democrats are dead wrong, and Democrats will think the same about Republicans. But without the tension, there will be no impetus for growth, no realization that we must somehow establish unity or we will kill each other. There is a funny thing about unsolvable conflicts. When you finally manage to reconcile, you often feel closer than before the conflict broke out. Moreover, you often realize that the problem doesn’t exist anymore even though you never touched it, but only focused on connecting with the other party. If it ever happened to you that you fought with your partner and after you made up you couldn’t remember what you fought about, then you know what I mean. But it isn’t only on the personal level. The same idea is true for social, national, and international conflicts. When you work on unity, the problems aren’t solved, they disappear since they were only there as catalysts for connection. America has been the leader of the free world since pretty much the end of World War II. Now it’s in a crisis that can send it soaring or sink it down. If Americans want, they can be the trailblazers they have always been and lead the whole world to a new era, where problems are promoters of connection, and conflicts are opportunities for deep concord. It’s been a political draw in America since 2016; it’s time to hash it out and rise together to a new level of solidarity and cohesion, and pave the trail away from friction and toward real and lasting peace. itput.info/zone/video/d4ZmfoeYlJeumqg

  68. CHER G

    CHER G

    4 mesi fa

    Romans 10:9 - That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved. Ephesians 2:8 - For by grace are ye saved through faith; and that not of yourselves: it is the gift of God, lest any man boast.

  69. Babiba Sultana

    Babiba Sultana

    4 mesi fa

    I'm not happy when I'm with myself. Maybe that's why I feel lonely.

  70. Nah Mos

    Nah Mos

    4 mesi fa

    People need to be truly connected, and involved in their community, especially present not so much by electronic superficial fake means 💡

  71. Graham Cracker Jay TV

    Graham Cracker Jay TV

    4 mesi fa

    😢

  72. InfiniteGalaxy

    InfiniteGalaxy

    4 mesi fa

    My type of loneliness is the fear of not being able to find my loving wife and being able to be with her because of different I am.

  73. David Cipriano

    David Cipriano

    4 mesi fa

    My mom suffers from obesity and depression. Thing is my dad is her exact opposite and they never find common ground. Being a commuting college student I stayed at home and spent a lot if time with her for the most part and have seen her go through a lot. Shes so into Facebook and never drops her phone. We are five sons and she never had a daughter to share with and her mom and only sister in another country. She has like 1200 friends which are ladies her age and stuff. I've encouraged her to find a hobby and stuff to make friends but she seems to be very shy and always wants me to go with her. Frankly I've never really experienced much of this since I've gotten used to being alone and I am very selective with my connections but I try to open up and be more engaging myself. I gotta do it because my whole family are a bunch of introverts and rarely share at parties which really bums me out. 2021 I'll be making massive changes for sure!

  74. Gortak the freezer hope

    Gortak the freezer hope

    4 mesi fa

    Arigatodesu. blessings for you. llegaras te lo aseguro.

  75. FlyONWire

    FlyONWire

    4 mesi fa

    I have a hard time "connecting" with people because I often feel like the third wheel in a conversation. E.g, while in a conversation, people eventually start to talk less to me and I feel that maybe I'm not interesting to talk to. Then I feel left out in a group. I don't know how I should feel about being less liked than other people since I'm human and I want to feel appreciated and accepted Or should I just come to terms with my position of not being as conversely social. Maybe I can communicate by different means?

  76. H Harijon Singh

    H Harijon Singh

    4 mesi fa

    Awesome cinematography..

  77. Isaac Thomas

    Isaac Thomas

    4 mesi fa

    I feel lonely and it hurts really bad and I em cluster phobic about it

  78. Moon Child

    Moon Child

    4 mesi fa

    It's Christmas night, both my parents are at work. I feel ;-;

  79. Soyoung Kim

    Soyoung Kim

    4 mesi fa

    great video and advice. My question is... (I think) I 'm very social and outgoing, and have no problem in having conversation with even strangers. I'm trying to have 'real' connections but feeling more frustrated because the meaningful relationship doesn't come often. (friendship, romantic relationship, etc) Then I'm like, what else more should I do? (fyi, I moved to the U.S by myself in my mid 20s, so all my best friends and families are in my home country which means I had to start building my relationship when being adult, we know it's harder when you get older)

    • Soyoung Kim

      Soyoung Kim

      4 mesi fa

      @Next Level Millennial I can’t agree more than that. It def takes time to build any meaningful connections.

  80. Safiyah Hamlet

    Safiyah Hamlet

    4 mesi fa

    I needed this video. Thank you. Covid has really put a toll on loneliness and emotions.

  81. Dear Brave

    Dear Brave

    4 mesi fa

    "one way rshp can't cure loneliness only 2 way or more rshp can do that"

  82. Rashel Rene

    Rashel Rene

    4 mesi fa

    I have been on a conscious journey for a little over two years now and I am still learning to practice in my daily life. I recommend the book called, The untethered soul. By Michael Singer. Everything that was shared in this video has been what I have learned and I adore you for creating this video. Today is the first day I have seen your channel. 3 vids in and I am already subscribed. Love it!

  83. Pamela Hermosillo

    Pamela Hermosillo

    4 mesi fa

    Dudeeeee you outdid yourself. So stoked for you

  84. NUBIA

    NUBIA

    4 mesi fa

    For all people that lack speaking to people sharing experiences and emotions, VR-chat really helped me. I am a pretty shy personality which is scared to open up and doing things irl like going out for drinks for example. After a while of going into vr i was used to talk to people on the daily bases and one day i thaught hey yk what?, atleast try to go out and challanged myself. I said to myself "i mean if u get to scared just go out of the club and go home". So i went in sat alone and wierd at the bar and ordered some drinks. But obviously nothing gonna happen when you dont make the first move. So i went to a group of people told them my story and they was really nice about it. We all had a very fun time and exchanged phone numbers. These were then later my first friends that i made after school and i am 23 years old.

  85. Koubra Zakaria

    Koubra Zakaria

    4 mesi fa

    I can not even begin to tell you how amazing and important this is! Thank you!

  86. Christin Mogese

    Christin Mogese

    4 mesi fa

    Honestly thanks for this ....

  87. #Delma The Forgotten#

    #Delma The Forgotten#

    5 mesi fa

    I'm Feeling lonely all the time.. Alexa add this to my Morning Playlist.

  88. Alan

    Alan

    5 mesi fa

    Man loneliness and isolation is so hard ... as a Syrian in Sweden I wish i have died in the war before coming to this level ... no social life, everyone has steryotype about me and more worse the weather and introvert people in this society ... feels like no place on the whole earth .......

  89. Mc001Rem002

    Mc001Rem002

    5 mesi fa

    I spent my life alone, if anyone is interested let me know

  90. mía ana

    mía ana

    5 mesi fa

    I'm crying

  91. trang nguyen

    trang nguyen

    5 mesi fa

    so basic take away from the video: 1. be aware - be present - which what meditation provides 2. Everyone wants to feel like they belong to a community. We are so alone this day, thinking we can do everything by ourselves. I guess if you are living in America, an individualism country, it makes it worse really. People don't have a sense of community and collectivism here. It's all about Me , Me and Me. Selfishness is what American probably rank #1( this is not entirely bad , individualism contribute pros to other factor in life ). This explains why other 3rd worlds countries, who makes a lot less money, but are still much happier. Anyway, everyone complains about how lonely they are these days, but when someone wants to form a community for group support, no one wants to reply, minimal effort is put in.. we shall remain lonely ..

  92. zum masumah

    zum masumah

    5 mesi fa

    How do all of ur content are really connect with me? Anyway, thanks Drew

  93. Xaler Music

    Xaler Music

    5 mesi fa

    Really insightful!! Thanks for sharing Nathaniel particularly at this time of the year! #endtoloneliness #beafriend Being alone and being lonely?..... two very different things. Useful resource to stimulate engagement and connecting itput.info/zone/video/kqWBoql82K2nlGU

  94. Antariksha Kashyap

    Antariksha Kashyap

    5 mesi fa

    This video makes me feel better.

  95. Susan Eberhardt

    Susan Eberhardt

    5 mesi fa

    So...I started a job away from everyone I know in order to end up (mostly) working from home. I ended up reuniting with my cat tho...forgot what a needy itch she can be...she hates me all of a sudden, but between her and Alexa...there's something to talk to.

  96. christabel joy

    christabel joy

    5 mesi fa

    Oh cool, I just need to get a cow!

  97. Michał F

    Michał F

    5 mesi fa

    Dont record your video calls, because when someone like me who dosn't speak englisch everyday have troubles with understanding what they say. Ask them to record themmselfes and sent thoose recording to you.

  98. Sabrina Tizaoui

    Sabrina Tizaoui

    5 mesi fa

    I can't thank you enough for this video ! I am literally crying out of emotion right now...I am afraid I have been showing depression signs and feelings of loneliness and being lost and behind on life for a while now but somehow just kept on ignoring them ! Your video gave me the break I needed to look at it from another angle and to acknowledge it... thank you ❤️

  99. Alfonso Paredes

    Alfonso Paredes

    5 mesi fa

    This also helps! -> wevoice.ai

  100. Foreign Chat Web

    Foreign Chat Web

    5 mesi fa

    I think that #loneliness controls #people who want to stay in their #comfortzones. If they want to #escape and find #peace, #joy, stability, and #unity with other people, they need to reach out to others in other #countries. Be open-minded. #Text, #videochat, #email, etc. them every week if possible. Take a #vacation somewhere they can find have easy access to new #friends...

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